Do you and your partner seem to just break up to make up? Some people consider this a regular part of a relationship. Others would call that a unhealthy relationship. So, is it love that was just meant to be… that’s why you guys keep coming back to each other or is this relationship in need of a permeate break??
Well, each case is different. First you must identify the reason for the frequent break ups. More often than not the reasons are similar to each other, if not the same. If you do find that the reasons are similar are the same then you must tackle that issue head on. You are your partner need to come to a unified realization of this problem and work to fix it. Once you BOTH except what the problem is you must then open up communication lines and talk to each other with respect and understanding. Figure out why this issue(s) keeps occurring and find out if one another is willing to make the necessary changes to stop this constant breaking up. AND BELIEVE ME THE BEST SOLUTION IS NOT MAKING A PROMISE TO NEVER BREAK UP NO MATTER WHAT… THAT DOESN’T WORK AND IT MAKES YOU MORE UNHAPPY AND RESENTFUL. If an agreement isn’t reached then you should seriously consider taking a permeate break.
Although this may be a difficult task to do, it seems that in this case the bad of the relationship out weights the good. Breaking up constantly causes unwanted stress; stress isn’t good for your health- physical or emotional. Take at least a month off and see how your mood changes. Yes, it will be very difficult for the first couple of weeks but you will notice (hopefully) that you are much more happier and have a drama free life.
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